love your life. :): Five things for which i love my self!!

Aaj ki taaza khabar. Prakhar is doing a tag!!!

Yes, stop slapping yourself, this is not a dream!!! I am really doing a tag

The tag requires me to write 5 things for which I love myself

So here we go:

1. Helping Others: I have habit of helping (or at least trying to help) everyone (read: anyone) no matter who he/she is. Even a stranger can not discourage me.
I know this is a common habit (at least in India, I don’t know about others) but I love myself for it because many other people love me for same reason. I help many people without realizing how much I am doing for them. And I guess that is what makes me special. Whenever someone asks me, “Why are you doing this much for me?” I get surprised. I have heard same question hundred times before but still it surprises me. Friend or not friend, a person who needs help should get it without hesitation.

Now, I don’t claim to be some great personality or something like that. I help others when I can, when it is possible for me and (recently, only) when it does not create trouble for me.

2. Forgiveness: I don’t believe in holding grudge. I hate some people but that does not make me to hold any grudge for them. The moment my anger melts, I forgive every offender in my mind and let the person know what I feel if possible. I do not expect everyone to be saint. It’s a choice a person has to make for him/herself.

Believe me; I really do not have any enemies. Or may be I should say that I do not consider anyone enemy. I may be distant and rude and dry towards some people but I really don’t see any reason to call them enemies. The guy whom I called “my best friend ever” actually plotted behind me and stole my notes which were ought to be checked every month and as i was not able to submit my notes my parents were called and i literally got a thrashing(oh this is embarrassing) when we were in school.we stopped talking for some days and he was so embaressed he started cutting his face from me, My friends consider us enemies or something more. But I didn’t!!! one day i went back to him and casually started a conversation, he was so dumbstruck that he broke to tears and then we both hugged eachother and then the old filmy drama started you know the ram bharat milap tipes..haha.. ☺ ☺ we both still are good friends and are now even partners in crime(we both are doing our b.tech{now thats a crime for me})

So, I love myself for this forgiveness saintly quality. Now I forgive myself for bringing up stupid hurting memories for very stupid reason of praising myself in a stupid self praising tag post.

3. Flexibility: Now here is something I Put me anywhere, I will match myself to the context!!! (or match the context to me

). I can live in some extreme rural area with no connection with modern world and will not complain at all. I am living in a Modern city ghaziabad (where I don’t like many modern things) and have adjusted myself to match ghaziabadian's. I can live with very less water

and I am adjusting with my current roommates (that is a miracle in itself). In technical field, I have no objections in working across different technologies and different people.
Again, I show nakhras only when I have choices

4. Fakology/Creativity/Making things up/Playing with words: Sometimes, you need to change a few details and twist some tales to tweak the situation for your good or for greater good of the universe……this is the field where I have attained a fair level of expertise. I usually manage to slip through tight situations by using my word-games and a little presence if mind.

i will share a secret which is formula I use in most of the critical situations. That secret is *simple logic*. Not just commonsense, but the right application of commonsense. I will explain with simple example (keeping non technical people in mind):

For example-when i was in class 10th ,me and 2 of my best friends decided to bunk our school and go on a long drive on just a single bike(see how fool i was {tripling}).so we jumped the wall of our school and got our friends bike (cbz star)and went on for that epic journey.we were young and didn't knew how to drive well but lately we had seen dhoom so driving fast was not a crime for us...we were at a top speed of 85 plus when we hit with an accident,both of my friends were hurt one got his hand broken and the other got some bruises even i was a bit bruised,t..we were terrified that now we would be caught and papa will punish us...i struck with an idea i instantly called my school and informed them that we met with an accident while coming to the school we three were on the same bi-cycle(see how i removed the motor from the bicycle)and that me with my friends are at a nearby hospital...the principle was stunned and sympathetic(i dont know how/she was so cruel)we came back to our school asap and broke the rim and handle of my bicycler as it looked that it had met with an accident......this weird idea of mine not only saved my ass from getting kicked but also got me sympathy from my faculty and parents.my friends still thank me for saving their ass that day and i just streach my collar and say"main hun naa"

Well, I will come up with more examples later. Just keep in mind that whenever you need to slip through tight holes, make sure you are very logical about things you say or make up and also make sure you have left enough loopholes to bypass someone trying to catch you.

I call it Fakology and I intend to write a guide for it, seriously. I love myself for this ability (and many of my superiors and friends hate me for it)

5. Basic Instinct: Now, this is a thing I guess I share with thousands of people around the world. I believe that every person has a power or ability sometimes called Sixth-sense. It is not just your logic or brain power. It is some instinct that flashes up some feeling in your head for a moment when you are about to make a decision. Mostly the feeling slips away before you catch it and understand it. But whenever you manage to get a hold on it, it surely affects your decisions.

I believe my intuition is very strong. I have saved myself from many blunders and stupid mistakes by following my instinct. Sometimes I think my quick reflex to something like ducking an unseen stone is more than just good eyes and ears. Many times I think I heard someone coming before anybody else but it is mostly the feeling and not the sharp ears.

I have a strange example here: In my college days, some friends decided to hide programs in computers in college lab and use them for practical exam next day. I had no need for cheating but I decided to give them company just for thrill of doing something against the rules. That evening, the lab assistant was promised a drink and then he locked us in lab with and promised half an hour for the dirty work. I did not take part in copying but sat browsing the net. After few minutes, I felt an urge to go out of that locked room. Nothing was wrong but something strongly urged me to get out and I started feeling very uneasy when I tried to force away the urge. So I went to locked door and asked the assistant to take me out. He knew me very well. He snapped at me that why I went in at first place if I did not need to cheat? But he let me out and I ran away. I was feeling suffocated in the building. I ran to bike stand away from the building. Hardly 5 minutes had passed when all (cheater) boys joined me at bike stand. A teacher of my dept had caught them red-handed!!!! The teacher failed them in practical exam as punishment instead of making a big issue for that serious crime.

I was simply lucky to get out in time. I was about to get punished for being at wrong place at wrong time in wrong company, I must have missed her by a minute or less. I still don’t believe that it was just a co-incidence. Unknown, unexplained urge to get out of that lab just few seconds before the teacher decided to check the lab……… to much for just a co-incidence!!!
There is other side to these so called instinct decisions. Sometimes, it does not feel right for the situation. It may be turn out to be right in long run but at the particular moment, I can’t afford to follow it. Also many times I simply ignore it because of some stupid attraction or something like that overcomes it. And I regret it many times. How many times I say, “Damn, I should have done it that way. I should have listened!!” I think I should write about instincts in detail in a separate post later.

Well, that’s all for now. I can write a book about myself and best things about me, but I doubt anyone will ever read it

And this is the longest post I have ever written. I hope some people have really reached this line honestly

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Que. I mentioned that I want to write a guide for something. What is it?
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